I, like most people I know, have wayyy too much stuff. Twenty-seven years ago, I drove cross country from New Jersey to California and everything I owned fit in the back seat and trunk of a Toyota Celica hatchback. A stereo system, a few hundred record albums, some dishes from Conran’s, some clothes and backpacking equipment, and some textbooks I needed to study for the physical therapy state board exams. That was IT.
I remember moving into my very first apartment, a studio in the outer Richmond district in San Francisco. It had a fold-down Murphy bed, so that was taken care of. I bought some sheets for it. I went to an estate sale and got a few items – an ancient toaster, and some pillows (ACK, used: what was I thinking? I don’t know) for a dollar. My godmother’s sister, who lived across the Bay, gave me two really ugly, old but functional chairs from her garage. Thank goodness for those chairs.
After a few months as a working health professional, I got this couch made of pillows for $125 from Cost Plus near Fisherman’s Wharf. Then I got a little round table for my kitchen, and a chair. That was the beginning of a couple of decades of accumulation. Now I live in a house that could probably accommodate about a dozen of those studio apartments, and enough stuff to choke a whale. I know for sure that every time I bring stuff IN to the house, it is about at a ratio of 25:1 to the rate at which I remove anything.
I am determined to really try and stem that tide, or shrink that ratio, this year. And I am doing it in a determined fashion, starting with my little writing office. That place has been impossible to work in or think in because of the countless PILES in every corner and empty spot. I really tackled it last week. It still doesn’t look pristine, but I did end up dealing with some of the piles, some of which were shocking. One pile was a stack of cartons I hadn’t looked at since… 2006. It turns out they were Christmas gifts I meant to return but never did. Now it is way too late.
But I just got rid of them, thrillingly, on Freecycle!! Freecycle is about donating stuff, like you might to Goodwill, but one thing at a time. Basically, people list stuff that they have to give away, and other people claim that stuff. Some people might ask for things like “charger for a Nokia phone” and you can scan it and see if you have that thing.
I first heard about it when one of my Facebook friends announced she had just gotten rid of a bunch of things. I was intrigued and checked out my local branch of Freecycle. I listed this crazy chair we’ve had since we moved here (gifted to us by previous owners) that is shaped like a high-heeled shoe. This thing was cute at first but now nobody really wanted it. At all. But like a dozen people on Freecyle were SO excited about it. Someone came and picked it up right away. Yay!
Since then I have “freecycled” everything from my 2006 Christmas-gift pile. Oh, except for this pair of pink and brown rainboots. I bought these for my daughter in… 2006. At the time she was embarrassed by these boots and was afraid to wear them because they were not fashionable enough. I swore to return them, but it was too much of a pain, so they ended up in the Bermuda Triangle corner of my office. I listed them on Freecycle, but then just as I was about to chose their new owners, she came in and said, “Oh, nice boots!” and tried them on. Now that she is going to college in a place full of inclement weather and “people with no fashion sense” she was very happy to have them back. So I had to disappoint a whole bunch of Freecyclers who really wanted them. Ha.
But I am determined to freecycle at least five things a week. I should be busy for QUITE a long time. But it feels good to be getting things OUT of the house rather than in, for a change.
January 8, 2009 at 9:42 pm
I’m with you about purging. I keep a Goodwill box in the garage, and I freecycle and/or list things for free on Craig’s List all the time. I’ve even got the boys almost into the “one in, one out” rule (we are currently in the midst of serious conversations about donating one of the train sets — because they now have three.) We still have way too much stuff, and like you, my whole first apartment could fit in one room of this house… but I”m trying!
January 8, 2009 at 9:48 pm
Things I have freecycled: a chandelier,2 heavy duty banquet-style folding tables, a box of msicellaneous hardware, a box of miscellaneous electronic stuff like phone chargers, 2 sets of chains–1 for a mini-van, 1 for a honda civic. Freecycle is amazing.
January 9, 2009 at 1:54 am
Hey, cute boots!
I am staying away from Freecycle for now because I would be too tempted to GET more stuff from it. But we have alley dumpsters here, so you can put anything remotely usable out next to the dumpster and someone will take it. Good for when you’re too busy for a Goodwill run.
Good for you on the purging!
January 9, 2009 at 4:45 am
The only think I don’t like about freecycle is the crazy sob stories people send trying to win the sympathy olympics. Seriously, people, it was just some dishes! I doesn’t matter if your dog just got ran over by a car and you have a broken ankle! First come first serve!
January 9, 2009 at 7:04 am
Our local Freecycle encourages us to wait 24 hours before choosing a recipient, and to choose the “most deserving” rather than the first one. So I guess this is where the sob story thing originates. I haven’t heard anything terribly ridiculous yet though.
January 9, 2009 at 7:25 am
Kittbo, I am expressly not allowing myself to even PEEK at the other OFFER messages. And even when I do, I’m not remotely tempted.